other than that, thinking about clear and evident concepts that sometimes only click when you say them out loud. basically about being more understanding about what people CAN do, what a job CAN be, what a relationship CAN become, as opposed to those womanly (if i may say so, without any intent in offending women out there) fixated thoughts on reaching for perfection or waiting for the ideal moment or things like that. not only does it make your expectations more realistic, therefore your life easier, but it helps you understand yourself as well. so currently, thinking about my limits. i can only go so far. i can only do so much. it's good, to come to the realization that i'm not so great at some things or i can't afford some desired goals i had in mind, etc.. makes my life healthier and brings my feet to the ground.
also, much better to readjust to reality than try to reach for that wishful thinking objetct of desire that'll never come true. what a crazy life we sometimes choose! reaching for the stars when we know that no, we will not ever grasp them. we don't have to aim for the floor but i'm finding out that there are more reasonable in betweens.
